


Most self-help asks you to perform a new self — new habits, new aesthetic, a whole new you. It never quite feels true, because it isn't. You were never broken or lost. You just never had the conditions to fully find yourself. This is about coming back, not starting over.

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I taught in high schools for twenty-plus years, then moved into academic advising, and later coordinated international exchange programs — work that put me across the table from people rebuilding a sense of self in an unfamiliar place, again and again. In every one of those rooms, I was sitting with someone trying to figure out who they were becoming — not just which class to take, or which country, next. And right now, I'm walking through a liminal season of my own.
That last part isn't a caveat. It's why I built this. Liminal Ground isn't theory handed down from the other side of a transition — it's built from actually sitting inside one, and from years of watching people stop performing and start asking who they are underneath the roles they've been carrying.
I'm not here to help you become someone new. I'm here to help you find the person who was always there. However you arrived — an empty nest, the end of a marriage, a career that stopped fitting — I'd be honored to walk this next stretch home with you.

Liminal Ground is a 10-week, 1:1 coaching journey through five stages — Excavate, Examine, Envision, Engineer, and Emerge. You'll build the Liminal Map, a living document that holds everything you uncover, and close the program with a Personal Manifesto in your own words: proof that you were always worth finding.
This isn't a self-paced course you do alone. It's structured, at your own pace, with a personal coaching response from me at the end of every stage. You bring the honest work. I help you see what it's telling you.


A short, honest exercise to help you see clearly how much you've given to the roles you carry — and what's still there, underneath them, that belongs only to you.
$9.97
The full Filleadh Framework, in book form — the five stages, the thinking behind them, and the case for coming home instead of reinventing yourself. A quieter place to start, before or instead of the full program.
$4.97

A short look back - before you can go home to who you always were, it helps to remember who that was.

A quick, honest check-in on where you actually stand right now — not a test to pass, just a starting point for noticing what's true.

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